Change can be a scary thing. Finding comfort in the familiar is an easy default. Sticking with what you know, perfecting your daily routine – these are all things that provide us a sense of security and are far more appealing than the idea of walking away from everything you know and taking a leap of faith. Why? Because chances come with risks. But guess what? Living a life in which you are simply content lends its fair share of risk, too, albeit of a different nature.
You see the thing about change is that it’s natural, even when it does not feel that way. Like the subtle shifts in seasonal scenery or the gentle flip of a wall calendar, change is engrained in us. Everything in the world around us changes. The earth keeps moving and it’s important that we do the same. It’s not going to stop moving and fighting against it will only leave you exhausted and defeated.
When going through a transitional period in your life, here are some important factors to consider:
Don’t let the opinions of others divert you from the path you’re meant to follow. Everyone will have their own opinion on what is best for you but the truth is, you’re the only one who really, truly knows what is in your heart. Be open to the wisdom of others, but take outside thoughts with a grain of salt and don’t allow them to control your decision to make a move.
It’s good to have a big heart, but don’t let that set you back from doing what is best for you. Sure, being selfish is usually frowned upon but there are actually times when it is okay. It’s easy to get caught in the idea that you need to make others happy or don’t want to hurt the feelings of those you care about but sometimes, just sometimes, the best thing you can do is to look out for yourself. Those that care about you, in the most sincere of senses, will accept this.
Dig deep to find out what truly matters to you. This one is tough and can easily be skewed by the world around you. It’s easy to be tempted by more money or big promises, but in the end, are these the things that will make you finally feel fulfilled? Will you be able to look back on your life and say “I’m so glad I was able to do this or make that?” If the answer is no, it’s time to reevaluate. You don’t want to reflect back later in life and think, “I’m so sad I’m missed out on this because I was too busy being focused on that.”
A world of unknowns awaits you if you’re brave enough to take a chance but the reward may be far greater than leading a life in which you’re always wishing for something more, something different.
Phileo Life & Love 